I believe 100% that every Human Being has a primitive desire for more and better and nowadays this is more evident with more and more people going after a more attractive physique, healthier habits, a full bank account , enriching relationships, etc. and with the information we have available today and especially with social networks, it seems that anyone can get everything they want, but that is not within everyone's reach. If you don't have healthy relationships, if you don't have a full account, if you don't have an attractive physique and above all if you don't have the right mindset, you will never, ever achieve great things. There are people who want to win EuroMillions but don't even play. It's not enough to want, there needs to be a transformation and before you even think about making your dreams come true, whatever they may be, it's important to change a lot of things in your life, starting with yourself.
TAKE RESPONSABILITY
The situation you find yourself in may not even be your fault, but it is your responsibility. You can spend your whole life complaining about the unhappy childhood you had, your traumas, the government, etc. or you can simply say enough is enough, take responsibility for your life and start doing what needs to be done.
You have to be aware of your choices, you have to be aware of the person you are, what your qualities are as a person, but also your flaws and it is your responsibility to work and become a better person, or at least more aware. Above all, stop making excuses and get on with life.
LIVING BY PRINCIPLES
Is there anyone who achieves success without principles? Absolutely, but I also believe that those who do, will not be successful for a long time, there are those who come up with a lot of schemes and tricks to get what they want so much, little do they know that it's just a matter of time until go back to what they were. It is no coincidence that many people who win the lottery in a few years or even months find themselves living in poverty again. This happens because the person has not developed the qualities or principles to make the best use of the prize.
Principles are the foundation of any human being who seeks to become better and there are no secrets in this regard, it is enough to have the right intention at all times, follow principles such as courage, humility, intelligence and responsibility no matter what happens always take you the best way.
Attention! Living by principles is not a matter of convenience, you cannot be brave today and stop being brave tomorrow just because the challenge ahead is greater. This isn't living by principle, it's living by convenience, and it won't do you any good.
SELECT WHAT IS REALLY IMPORTANT
Is it really important for you to waste time talking badly about your neighbor or your co-worker? Is it really important for you to watch the last episode of the soap opera or the last Champions League game? Is it really important to you to watch that boring fifty-episode series just because it's trendy? Is it really important for you to watch the news every day? Have you ever thought about the time and energy you waste doing things that add no value to your life?
"Oh but I need to know what's happen in the world"
Do you need it? Will you enlist in the army to help Ukraine? Shut up and turn off the fucking television and go to work. Stop making excuses. Stop getting things to distract yourself afraid of facing life's difficulties. What is really important to you? If you want to be successful you need to focus on the things that matter and filter what does and does not enter your life and that includes objects, movies, music and people. If you have someone who is part of your life, but who only knows how to bring problems into your life, why keep insisting? If you have a song that makes you sad, why do you keep listening to it? P*# you really enjoy being sad! Do a deep cleaning in your life, leave out what doesn't matter and that won't take you anywhere and gradually start adding things that are worth having/doing.
INVEST IN YOURSELF
In a previous post 'Investments That Blow Up With Your Money And You Don't Even Notice! I tried to show that the rosy world they paint on the Internet about stocks and cryptocurrencies and online betting does not always correspond to the truth and I have nothing against anyone who tries to make a living investing in whatever it is, after all the money is not mine, but if you really want to invest seriously, there is no better investment in the world than investing in yourself. You need to invest in yourself, both in your mental health, in your physical health, in your appearance, in your language, in your education, in your skills, in your capabilities, etc. This investment will give you a return that you cannot even imagine.
Imagine that you invest in yourself to become a nice person and then you decide to learn English and take up some speciality. Gradually, doors that were closed before are opening and instead of receiving the minimum wage, you start to receive a little more or maybe a lot more.
ENJOY THE LIFE
Above I mentioned that it is necessary to select what is really important to you, however it is also necessary to know how to enjoy life and do things that do not make sense. What I want you to understand so that my speech does not sound contradictory is that more important than doing what you are doing is understanding the reason why you are doing what you are doing. There's nothing wrong with watching a Champions League final game, what's wrong is putting the final game as a priority or using it as a distraction injection. Life is hard, it's not easy for anyone and it's harder to face the difficulties of everyday life and face them, but that's the only way, life won't get easier, but you can get stronger and once as you gain more strength you can simply enjoy life without compromising it. There is nothing wrong with drinking, smoking, having fun, etc. what is wrong is that there is no balance.
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